INTRODUCTION

“Ah yes divorce, from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man’s genitals through his wallet.”

Robin Williams

This book is for all of the guys who have gone through, or may go through, the hell of divorce. My purpose is to show you how to get your life back…and much more. The first part of this book is an examination of the divorce system. The second part is a strategy to get your life back. What you will discover is how to become a total success regardless of what you have been through.

I am not a psychologist or a divorce lawyer. I’m just a regular guy who got royally screwed over in the divorce process and not in spite of it – but because of it – made my life everything that I wanted it to be. The only thing that makes me unique is that when the smoke cleared, I was better off than before it all started.

I took the time to examine and try to understand the family law system and the effect it has on men. I interviewed lawyers, judges, ex-wives, second wives and most importantly divorced men. Divorce, it turns out, is one of the main causes of bankruptcies, foreclosures and depression. Divorce has totally destroyed way too many good men.

When I was in the midst of the battles, I didn’t know if I would survive. I lost everything – twice! It seemed I could find no assistance or even understanding anywhere. I want you to know that I understand, because I’ve been through it. I also, have the answers for a lot of your challenges.

Today, my life is better in every way that I can think of. I am going to show you how I did it and how you can too. This book is a master plan that’s tailor-made for divorced men. Let’s start by looking at what you’re up against.

“Everything a divorced man needs is in this one book.”